-By Albert Einstein-

If someone feels that they had never made a mistake in their Life, then it means they had never tried a new thing in their Life.

Ain't Perfect for The Ugly Truth

How do you define perfect in your dictionary? In mine, Perfect means something which is complete, excellent, and delightful in all perspective in a person or a task.
However, there is no perfect guy/girl in our own point of view as we tend to judge others before ourselves.
Realizing weaknesses walks along hand-in-hand with strengths as well. We observed, we analyzed, we thought, and last but most importantly we will judge. That's how the judging process works.

One's characteristic is usually shaped and molded from their family background since they were a small little girl/boy. It can be viewed as their unique culture which is practiced daily, every hours, every minutes and every seconds. When two people is seeing each other, they start to alter their own lifestyle (which have been practicing for years), in order to suit their the other half, I'm sure each and everyone of you will surely be going through this stage (probably you're not, but it's just a matter of time), which I used to name it after "stage of falling in love".

That's what I can conclude with the quote of don't judge a book by its cover.
It can be a nicely wrapped, creatively decorated chocolate but with a bitter taste; or vice versa.
Judge it or love it, it is in your hand.

-If you judge people, you have no time to love them-
-By Mother Teresa-

8 colorful drop(s):

  • Perfect for everyone is impossible, but instead of being perfect, we need to strive for the best in our life...

    Judging someone is by perception, and how you perceive someone. Have time with them, and you will see the true colours beneath them...

  • In order to strive for the best, there's always comes with a word sacrificing. I learn a new idiom during my visit to Han Chiang Primary School yesterday.
    What is worth doing, is worth doing well. Hence, I will learn, analyze and judge what's worth for me to do it well, then. Thanks anyway.

    At times, our perception is prone to another negative side after seeing and realizing the true colors beneath them, that's how and why are we are still here, learning how to neutralize between one's weaknesses and strengths.

  • being perfect is hard.. everything sure have a tiny mistake in it, if not big.. but we'll always do our best right?

    doing our best doesnt mean we're aiming for perfectness, it's just that we want things to go well! =)


  • Yupz, I agree with what you have said. What is worth doing, is worth doing well, and no pain no gain, right? I just combined both of them together. :p

    Learning, is a stage that we are facing and doing everyday and night. No matter what you have learn, it will benefit you someday.

    Like what we said just now, everyone got his or her own strengths and weaknesses. In order to perceive someone, we need to look on both sides.

  • What is perfect? I guess everyone agree that it means no mistake at all. Logicaly thinking,if we never do a mistake means we never know what is the meaning of correct or well done.Hence,there will also nothing such as correct in our mind anymore.At the end perfect is nothing.

    I believe that everything has its pros and cons.
    And for me perfect is not a good thing.Besides of that, average is something,and it will has its pros cons of course.

    Observe is good.But please don't over observe.Because nobody like it.


  • kenwooi,
    Yea, agree that being perfect is hard. Doing our best, in other words can be meant aiming for perfect, i suppose. =)

    Oops yea, no pain no gain, that's the quote, again. No doubt that learning occurs at anywhere, anytime.
    You are right, I'm perceiving one's strength and weakness as well. Hopefully I'm able to master the skill. Hehe

    If we never did a mistake, then, we should slower down our pace, and start figuring out whether we are on the correct path. As quoted by Albert Einstein, If someone feels that they had never made a mistake in their life, then it means they had never tried a new thing in their life.
    A very nice sharing. =)

    Yes, yes and yes, everything has its pros and cons, but being perfect is not a good thing to you? May I know why?

    I prefer to make a silence observation than spreading things out before my mind is clear crossed with my analysis. =)

  • To me perfect is not a good thing.
    And i do not wanna be perfect too.

    If im perfect, i will have problems of getting along with others. That is when i have a big gap with others.

    Because perfectionist like to correct every single thing that they find out it's wrong. They set a high standard in their point of view.

    Perfectionist are serious, they tend to analyze everyone who passed by.

    Sometimes when they carried their analytical skills too far, and it cause them to brood over problems and to be constantly evaluating everyone else's performance.

    Under the watchful eye of the perfectionist, others may become nervous and edgy.

    Perfectionist are detail concious.
    Many little things in life that others don't even note are very important to perfectionist.
    Especially the negative one.

    They spends time explaining the theory behind them to others and can't understand that some just don't get interested.

    Perfectionist are sensitive and they are easily get hurt. They are gloomy person.

    It is true and i know it because i'm born as a perfectionist too, but i have changed my personality.

    I know that nobody like gloomy person, so i try to be happy everyday and get easy with others.

  • Neenee! Or I think I'd better call you Mok. It sounds so awkward when I call you neenee. Should be your special one name it after you. Hehe

    Well, being perfect can be viewed in a positive side and also, a negative side. It depends on how you perceive it with your own view.

    Yea, nobody loves gloomy person, I'm too, trying to be happy and go easy with the others everyday.