Well...this question has been playing in my mind for quite some time. Are we still friends?
Being friends, no doubt, friends can be classified into different types and groups. I have been treating *Alice into my Best Friend group, however; at times *Alice treated in a cold way as a return. Wondering why and I could not stop myself from questioning myself why is that so?
I met *Alice in my college, well...such a coincident and thanks to another particular friend where me and *Alice were introduced to each other and somehow became friends before proceeding into the so-called "best friends" group. The age varies definitely did not stop us from building the bonds.
Should I care when *Alice treats me in such a cold way? *Alice did not keep an eye-contact with me anymore even though she used to. What more...she even answered my open-ended question with an answer merely as short as a 'yes' or 'no'. Comparing the the past, *Alice will absolutely having the endless chat with me when I threw her a simple question like 'How are you, dude?'
You know what? I was totally depressed when I knew about it. I hardly convinced myself into believing this cruelty she has just created. Should I be informed what is reason behind the act? Treating her as a friend from the top of my heart...but what do I received as a return? Well...I do care, yes I do! I do not mind if you just ignore me and walk away from my life but please give me a sufficient and convincing reason, at least one of it although it might be just a lame excuse.
I do care, my friend!
All of all is because you're worth to be a best friend!
*Alice - Names changed prior to privacy
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8 months ago
I have only one BFF, and a small cycle of close friends, but friends come and go, those who stay also have to change, don't be sad Jes, that's just the way it is, you have many people who want to know you and be your friend. Cheer*
People come and go in your life. Sometimes we have to let it go and move on.
People come and go in your life. Sometimes you have to let it go and move on.
Cheer,
Perhaps you are right, I did notice that something right in front of my eyes. Perhaps it is true, that Alice might not treat you as best friend yet, but who knows when time goes by, you will be one of Alice's best friends?
Just walk along with your path, and sooner or later, Alice might join your friendship bond again.
Cheers!